Sounds like this girl may have some underlying issues besides what they are actually fighting about. My advice is to figure out what the actual problem is and work it out. Otherwise, no sex for you!
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What kind of business does she have ttc with dh if she can't even talk to him?
What? Your saying that they should get along, communicate and love each other? Crap, I thought babies were made by abusive relationships, cheating on each other, and smoking crack! Damn.. thats what I've been doing wrong this whole time. My luck, she'll get pregnant this cycle too! What the fuck!?
Oh FWIW, does anyone else think that her DH might really not want to have a baby if he's been holding out THAT long? Hunny, maybe he's trying to tell you something. TAKE A HINT!!! When my DH and I have an argument... we have good makeup sex and then its over and done with.
Geez.. I swear, if this lady gets pregnant this cycle.. I'm going to go to the local corner, buy some crack and a 40oz, cancel my insurance and go cheat on my DH; just to see for experimental purposes if I get a BFP!
Wow, most ppl don't "strike" for that long. It's b/c they really don't want to have sex. You can't hold out that long b/c of anger. Everyone has dry spells at some point in time, some just last longer than others. But I agree, if they can't communicate and figure out the underlying problem, they really shouldn't be having a kid right now.
There's not enough information in that post to discern one way or another why her DH is still "on strike". There's certainly not enought there to indicate that he has a girlfriend as 'Anonymous' suggested above.
I do agree that she probably shouldn't be TTC when she can't communicate with her partner.
I'd really like to have seen the responses she received to that post.
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What kind of business does she have ttc with dh if she can't even talk to him?
It's hard to make any recommendations or suggestions w/o knowing what the argument was about and why he's "on strike."
I agree with pp. If Dh and I get in an argument, the 'make-up sex' is always the best.
If it is just a minor argument, I would just suck it up, put something sexy on and attack him the next time I see him...
What? Your saying that they should get along, communicate and love each other? Crap, I thought babies were made by abusive relationships, cheating on each other, and smoking crack! Damn.. thats what I've been doing wrong this whole time. My luck, she'll get pregnant this cycle too! What the fuck!?
Oh FWIW, does anyone else think that her DH might really not want to have a baby if he's been holding out THAT long? Hunny, maybe he's trying to tell you something. TAKE A HINT!!! When my DH and I have an argument... we have good makeup sex and then its over and done with.
Geez.. I swear, if this lady gets pregnant this cycle.. I'm going to go to the local corner, buy some crack and a 40oz, cancel my insurance and go cheat on my DH; just to see for experimental purposes if I get a BFP!
Wow, most ppl don't "strike" for that long. It's b/c they really don't want to have sex. You can't hold out that long b/c of anger. Everyone has dry spells at some point in time, some just last longer than others. But I agree, if they can't communicate and figure out the underlying problem, they really shouldn't be having a kid right now.
Wow, I am so glad they are planning on bringing a kid into their happy home!!
I'm thinking he has a girlfriend.
Until her problems resolve themselves or they choose to work on them, she has no business TTC.
There's not enough information in that post to discern one way or another why her DH is still "on strike". There's certainly not enought there to indicate that he has a girlfriend as 'Anonymous' suggested above.
I do agree that she probably shouldn't be TTC when she can't communicate with her partner.
I'd really like to have seen the responses she received to that post.
I admit I'm wondering why she can't "afford" not to try. Is her million dollar inheritance dependent on her producing little heirs?
Yeah, yeah, I know that isn't actually the big issue here. :)
Dawn - Changes in sexual patterns is a sign of cheating, it's actually the #1 sign. Cutting off your wife for two weeks qualifies as a change.
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